Being queer or any type of minority in our society is not easy, and a lot of us struggle trying to understand who we are in it. There are so many labels, so how does one choose which suits them best? Phases reached out to a few people in the LGBTQ+ community to see what advice they would offer anyone trying to figure out and understand their identity, gender, and or sexuality. These next two blogs are their responses. We hope that someone out there can read these and know that they are not alone in this journey. There is a wide support system out there for all of us who need it and it starts here.